Every guy who goes to a strip club has their own personal “strategy.” Some play it cool. Some act aggressive. Some pace around the club while nursing a beer to avoid getting asked to spend money. But do any of these violate Guy Code? Since the whole point of going to a strip club is to get attention from the strippers, who better to rule on gentleman’s club etiquette than the actual dancers?
We interviewed dancers from Rick’s Cabaret and Vivid Cabaret, two of the best gentleman’s clubs in New York City. Emma and Harlow dance at Rick’s, and Brooke, Cynthia and Evelyn dance at both Rick’s and Vivid. It turns out that observing Guy Code in a strip club is remarkably simple. You basically just need to be respectful, observe basic hygiene and keep a sense of reality. Don’t take our word for it. Here is some real advice from real dancers.